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Winning People Over

Winning People Over"Winning People Over is a horrible sales strategy," writes sales trainer Bill Caskey. And I agree.

"After 22 years in the sales training business, I conclude that strategy is hopeless," he continues.

Why?

Are we not frequently taught to:

* win them over with our personality
* develop rapport to get them to like us
* treat the prospect like a king or queen, bending over backwards in the hope that they'll appreciate us enough to buy?

The Problems With Winning People Over

"If I can just get in front of a prospect, I'll get them to like me." I don't know how many times I've heard this from business owners. Sure. Do you have any stats to back that assertion up?

Let's look at what the strategy of winning people over does to you and your sales process.

1. You are no longer looking for the "right fit" -- you're trying to win them over.

2. You aren't speaking from a position of strength or as an equal -- you're trying to win them over.

3. You aren't showing that your solution is valuable -- you're trying to win them over.

There's more, but we'll stop here for now. Let's review what happens when we're winning people over instead of qualifying and then selling.

What Winning People Over Does to Your Sales Process

1. Your sales process is out of control. YOU are no longer the one in charge of the choice of whether to work with this prospect or not; they are.

2. Your pandering approach is a repellant turn-off to people with real power, ie. decision makers, business owners. They don't want to deal with weaklings--unless they have some sort of dominance issue...and in that case do you want them as a client?

3. Your solution has now become a commodity, because the differentiating factor you've tried to push into the situation is your personality.

Does this sound like the selling situation you want to be in?

Stop trying to win people over.

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So You Think You Know Your Sales Process – SalesTactics.org

sales processSometimes I get feedback that makes me do a double-take.

Feedback like, "This is Sales 101. I must be much farther ahead than most people."

I have to tell you: the evidence is heavily against that being the case.

Sales and sales process

are not as well understood as individuals think they are.

When you have stats saying:

82% of salespeople fail to differentiate themselves

86% of salespeople ask the wrong questions

(the Sales Board)

things are clearly wrong with the process.

When most salespeople can't even get the decision maker on the line or start a conversation, you know there's a problem with their sales and sales process.

Oh, you may "know" what to do from reading it in a book. But get into the pressure of a real selling conversation, and what do you do? Revert to the comfort zone. Product knowledge. "Show Up and Throw Up."

Do you conduct a post mortem after each sales call? What went wrong? What went right? Do you truly find your actions mirror what you "know"?

The odds are against it. I screw up from time to time--usually rushing between other calls. Once in awhile I forget to ask if there's another person involved in the decision. Occasionally I go into what I do prematurely, instead of asking more questions. And when I do that, hurdles appear. If I'm doing those things, so are you. Nobody's perfect.

We could all be performing better. If these articles serve to remind instead of educate, they've still fulfilled their purpose. To perform at our best, we need ongoing reinforcement of sales process and technique. A master painter, chef, martial artist or mechanic does not stop practicing and studying and expect to retain their skill. Let's keep this in mind.

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Starting a Sales Conversation Is Like Baking Bread

Starting a sales conversation can be tough. You'll hear people say, "Selling is part art, part science." My experience has made me believe it's far more science.

And the very beginning of selling, starting a conversation, is like the science of chemistry. In fact, it's a lot like baking a loaf of bread.

My background happens to be in operations management. The same discipline Peter Drucker hails from. Continuous improvement, process reengineering, flowcharting, systems analysis and more. My program had a 40% failure rate. It was hell. Really. Double the recommended maximum university courseload. Total commitment. No partying, no time off. All about cutting processes up into little steps, and determining which steps should stay and which should go. And the instructors beat into our thick skulls this maxim:

"To manage we must measure."

To manage we must measure. To understand and be able to control our results, we must have a consistent process.

Take this idea to making a loaf of bread.

This is chemistry. You mix certain ingredients in certain known proportions, and in a certain order. If you don't follow the recipe, your bread doesn't turn out. Fail.

Makes sense, right?

So why, then, when it comes to starting sales conversations do people see a process...and then "get smart"? Decide they can cut out steps in the process where it suits them? Or start flying by the seat of their pants? And believe they'll still get the same result?

To manage we must measure.

If you are taught a consistent sales process for starting conversations, and it works, don't "get smart" about it. Other trainers in other fields tell me about similar experiences: their students learn a method, and then decide they don't need to do steps 1 through 5. They can cut 2 and 4; after all, they don't look necessary for their unique situation.

And then they scream when their bread doesn't rise!

Start messing with the process, especially in a disorganized manner, and you'll get crazy results.

A programmer I worked with some years ago reminded me of this vital point when I was changing some website coding:

"Stop. Change one thing at a time. See what happens."

Yes, I had been running along, trying to get things done quickly by making several alterations at once. And if an unexpected result had appeared, what then? How would I know which change had made that outcome?

The voice of my OpMan program head from a decade and a half before instantly intoned in my still-thick skull, "To manage we must measure." Oh yeah. Whoops.

When you learn a consistent process for starting sales conversations, follow it. Don't change it. There's more going on than you think. Some of it is invisible.

Remember, the two biggest problems I have encountered so-called professional salespeople at companies having are:

1) Inability to get the decision maker available to speak, whether in person or on the phone, and

2) Inability to start a conversation so that there IS a 'rest of the discussion'.

An effective process for beginning sales conversations will accomplish both these things, and more. It will get you over the initial trust hurdle.

The beauty of baking is that you don't even have to understand why the bread rises. You just have to follow the recipe.

A clear parallel to sales training: you don't have to understand why the consistent process to start conversations works. You just have to follow it.

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